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Amani Haydar Amani Haydar i(17743426 works by)
Gender: Female
Heritage: Arabic
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1 Shelf Reflection : Amani Haydar Amani Haydar , 2021 single work column
— Appears in: Kill Your Darlings [Online] , July 2021;
1 6 y separately published work icon The Mother Wound The Motherwound Amani Haydar , Sydney : Macmillan Australia , 2021 21532050 2021 single work autobiography

''I am from a family of strong women.'

'Amani Haydar suffered the unimaginable when she lost her mother in a brutal act of domestic violence perpetrated by her father. Five months pregnant at the time, her own perception of how she wanted to mother (and how she had mothered) was shaped by this devastating murder.

'After her mother's death, Amani began reassessing everything she knew of her parents' relationship. They had been so unhappy for so long - should she have known that it would end like this? A lawyer by profession, she also saw the holes in the justice system for addressing and combating emotional abuse and coercive control.

'Amani also had to reckon with the weight of familial and cultural context. Her parents were brought together in an arranged marriage, her mother thirteen years her father's junior. Her grandmother was brutally killed in the 2006 war in Lebanon, adding complex layers of intergenerational trauma.

'Writing with grace and beauty, Amani has drawn from this a story of female resilience and the role of motherhood in the home and in the world. In The Mother Wound, she uses her own strength to help other survivors find their voices.' (Publication summary)

1 The Pleasure and Privilege of Painting Flowers Amani Haydar , 2019 single work autobiography
— Appears in: Arab, Australian, Other : Stories on Race and Identity 2019; (p. 95-106)
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